I really missed writing and at the same time I had some moments of introspection which I would be more than glade to share.
First of all , life has teached me again a valuable lesson ..patience and responsibility. These two...are a pain in the but :))
No matter how much we try to avoid it , no matter how many shortcuts we are trying to take , life is gonna "bite" us ..by giving us this lesson . And it is good that it bites...I realized some people can be very happy but not discover themselves half as opose to people who are suffering do.
It is an amazing lesson...Pain & Suffering . They say pain is inevitable , suffering is optional. Still, I think psychological pain can be very hard to deal with as we need to deal with our minds. And our mind is a stranger to us . Few people take the courrage to actually understand it ..more than this to transcend it.
Patience...wether you are stuck in traffic, in a unpleasant situation..we need to accept the present moment as it is . And it is so hard sometimes to do this, yet the feeling of surrender can bring so much healing in us that we are not even aware of. why do we continue extending the life for our suffering ? What inside us is still hanging on to that ? I've seen people who won't even quit their suffering. They like it ...it is a safe teritory ..If they jump into the "unknown" into letting go of suffering , who knows what will happen.
How sick are we?
Responsibility ...what can I say ...you never believe your parents, that you need to save money ..or that you need to grow more aware and think about your situation in the futur. When it comes to spending money, than we live in the present moment definetly ..spending money like theres no tomorrow :)) nd yet as funny as it might seem and air fairy as we can go...reality again gives us a nice "notice" of "FAIL" :)) and agrow bain we come back to suffering..because of course we won't be very happy to live one week with the money we used to spend in one hour :))) Come to think about it , soon we will be giving advices to our own children ...so sooner or later we will need to be more responsible.
It isn't that fun , but I hear responsibility comes along with freedom and fun. Freedom of not worrying about what next month brings since we have a little insurance put aside and fun comes from all the fun activities we can do , since we've also had the opportunity to plan them ahead.
If growing up is boring..lack of responsibility , and disorientation won't be any funnier ..long term :)))
I wish you luck and inspiration to find your path in life which will take you in the right place !
Namaste !
Oana
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